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Before i got married, i will admit it,i had serious budgeting problems.I would get paid and then two days later i would be broke.It was now normal for me and i got used to having clothing accounts in so many shops.Anyway now that i am married, i thought that disorganised life was over and done with,little did i know.I am currently unemployed and my husband is working day and night to make ends meet but still i am still the same old me,spending,spending and more spending.We sit down every month before he gets paid and work out a bugdet.I guess i have been blessed, in a sense that my husband has always brought home every cent that he has earned.Every month after the budget he then gives me the bank cards to go withdraw money and make sure i pay the bills.By the end of the day i have done half of what is in the list and the rest is just what i decide to do by myself at the mall.I really want to change because it is affecting our progress in life and i keep doing it month in and month out.I really want to be supportive of my husband for his efforts in struggling for our family….

What i know for sure is that whenever i had a fight with my husband T, the person that i spoke to if i needed to talk was my best friend who is happily married.I would have given up on marriage a long time ago if it was not for the constructive advise i got from my friend.I am that person who is happy and on top of the world but when i argue with T, i just feel i made a mistake.I love him when we are fine and not fighting but when we are fighting ,i hate him so much.Do i make sense?

I have continued with exercising and i have lost some kilos.Im not yet there where i want to be but i have decided i am going to be happy right now and not wait for the day that i completely loose all the weight to be content.My husband has been supportive but i never received his support well all the time.Sometimes i knew i had gained weight and still ask him if he thought the same but no,he still thought i was the most beautiful woman.It is so hard to believe it sometimes because of the insecurities that i have about myself.Anyway,what i know for sure is when i am happy,he is happy and vice versa.His happiness is key to my happiness and mine,his.Do i make sense?